If you want to move forward, you must change your way of thinking. Here is a shortlist of thought you ought not to have.
I don’t have a choice – You write your own destiny through the choices you make. You become what you repeatedly do. It is more important to know where you are going and why, than to get there quickly.
Life is easy – Life is not easy, it is difficult. Once you understand and accept this truth, you can move forward with your life. Then life gets a lot easier to deal with.
The way it is now is the way it will always be – No situation or condition is permanent; if you are dealing with pain or lose at the moment it’s all going to get better. You cannot heal a lifetime of pain overnight; be patient with yourself, it takes as long as it takes, but your happiness is worth the wait.
Everyone else is better off than me – Do not feed your insecurities, or they will consume you. So stop the comparisons with others, everyone must pave their own path in life.
That’s unrealistic – To be successful, you have to believe that something totally different than what has happened for an eternity can happen.
I wish – if wishes were horses …. The best thing you can do for yourself is to stop saying “I wish,” start saying “I will,” and then go do something about it.
It’s too late – Believing it’s too late is the end of your journey; believing in yourself is an endless destination. Trust yourself. Break the rules. Don’t be afraid to fail. Ignore those who tells you otherwise
It’s time to take a stand against thoughts and opinions seeking to diminish your worth. They shall not move forward with you. You will not allow them to deny you a new beginning. Make a commitment that their part in your life is over and done with, you are far too beautiful and far too strong to be a prisoner of things that do not really matter. It’s time to RECLAIM your life!